It’s baaaack! With a brand new time! Clearly, these gorgeous ladies knew I wasn’t a morning person, or a planner.. so they changed the time for me.
You know the deal! Lets see what you’re working on– show us your sparkle! I’ll feature some of my favorites next week! Yayy!
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First off, I want to thank each and every one of you who has sent emails, comments and messages checking up on me since my little absence. I wanted to give myself time to really *REALLY* be sure I wanted to share what’s going on in my life, and do so without tears in my eyes.
I can’t promise I wont have tears in my eyes though, but go with it.
I have always been open about the struggles that life has brought our way, whether it be our marriage, family life, bills, anything really. I’m not ashamed to admit that things aren’t perfect in this little world of mine– because the internet lies, and it sends out a message that everyone else has this beautiful life full of happiness, perfect magazine homes, and every project made from toilet paper rolls turns into golden pinterest worthy wall art.
That’s not life. Life isn’t always sunshine, sometimes there is rain, and lots of it.
Right now– there’s rain.
A few months ago (Sometimes it feels like days, sometimes years. Time kind of stands still when life is thrown for a loop) my husband decided that he just couldn’t do this anymore. And, I’ll be very very very honest with y’all.. God left my life at that very moment. I had a lot.. a LOT of hate. Because I stopped searching for my happiness in Him, and I felt I could only find that happiness through Jared. He was all I knew– he WAS my happiness right? I mean, 12 years is a long time to invest in someone.
I had friends pray for me, pray with me, days when my Mother literally had to drag me out of bed at 3 in the afternoon. Most of November was a blur, I can’t tell you how I got my children to school, who I called– (well I know I called a lot of friends, sometimes at 3 am and they so graciously answered the phone, with a yawn.. and let me sob. Scream, dwell, and over analyze the same situation I had been analyzing for weeks True friends are there when you’re a real mess.. And, for them I’ll be forever grateful), what I ate (when I remembered to. Seriously best/worst diet of my life.) but yet I somehow did all of these things.
God. God made me do these things. It was as if I went into a trance and the simplest things that you take for granted doing every day.. You stop doing them, and He just makes sure you make it out alive. Almost 40 lbs lighter, less hair, bags under your eyes.. but alive.
I wish I could say that I’m past the point of “What the f*ck just happened” (Sorry Mom.) Because it was so, so very unexpected. But I guess that’s life right? I mean, I don’t hold the future and giving up control of it has been by FAR the hardest part of it for me. Not being able to fix the situation myself. Not being able to ‘love’ someone back to you. Not being able to make the bad parts of the situation go away. It’s definitely been a test of who I am. Who I’m supposed to be.
And, because I’ve had conversations with so many of you who are going through something similar, and maybe you’ve made it to my blog because of previous posts on marriage, considering almost 3 years later it’s still one of my top posts. Let me just tell you. It sucks. But, it does get better. A little bit every day. I held on for probably too long, romanticizing what we’ve had for over a decade because I refused to see anything besides the good.
I will *never* forget the day that I finally woke up. I told myself I would fight like hell for my marriage until it was time to fight for myself.. and then one day I woke up.. and it was gone. The drive to hold on, the crippling fear of the future, I remember the day I realized I forgot what he smelled like and even though I needed a good hour to cry on the bathroom floor..because I had once LOVED what he smelled like– my mind was beginning to protect me. God was waking me up. I could finally quit focusing on what I did wrong to make him not want me– not want us– not want our future and just realize: I was me. I still love the idea of love. I still want so badly to be apart of SOMETHING with someone. I’m not afraid to tell someone how I feel. Tell my friends I love the hell out of them… Tell someone when they make me sad. Show my kids that love is real, and that you can be so unbelievably happy with someone that you’ll have butterflies in your stomach forever. It’s possible. I have faith in it. There is so much good out there, so much good. And, I want to take it all in.
I know I’ll have people disagree with my choice to put this out there. And, really I gave the G version and I have nothing to be ashamed of. Life is tough. Marriage is so hard. Divorce sucks. I wouldn’t wish the pain on anyone, but you will survive. You will thrive. You will come out so much stronger, because you only HAVE one life. You get one shot at this life, don’t spend it with someone who can’t see your worth. God places people in your life for a reason, no doubt. But sometimes he puts them there as a lesson, not to be your forever.
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So when I was asked to do a little somethin’ somethin’ with the Rubbermaid Bento Organizers I was really excited because I actually already use these little slices of heaven in my home! But I wanted to come up with something new for Christmas gifts that would incorporate them AND be a fun gift to get besides.. well.. a box with dividers. Though, useful– isn’t always the biggest WOW gift- right? Right? So I came up with something for a little girl or boy who 1.) Could always use a place to put trinkets, can I get an amen? and 2.) Would be fun enough to open as a gift.
So I thought about what my kids like to do– bake. What a fun thing for them to have their own mini-baking station! So I set off to Target to buy a Rubbermaid Bento Organizer and some fun little baking items. Imagine my delight when I could find MINI (think: Kid sized) goodies.. Mini cookie cutters and mini spatulas. I die.
I also got a really cute ornament because, I just couldn’t resist– glitter and pink. Two of my favorite things.
And, the rest is the easiest part ever– throw it all in the bento box and tie-er-up with string! Now, as a gift I would probably give a box of cookie mix with this but I know sometimes box mixes strike a cord with some people– you could always send a homemade jar of cookie mix y’all.. and everything would be right in the world. If you’re like me– send the box. ;) And their mom will thank you for not only giving a CREATIVE gift that just keeps giving, but one that will keep the clutter at a minimum because you gave the box to clean it up with too! The cool part about these Bento boxes are that the insides can be shifted to make room for whatever you are putting in it.
Other ideas for Christmas in a box gifts–
Bubble bath, candle, soap, loofa
Rainbow Loom bands (and all their million, trillion pieces)
The possibilities are endless and because Rubbermaid has so many different sizes for the bento boxes, you can go as little or as big as you’d like! I love that! Plus– this week they’re on sale (score!) and there’s a coupon code so you can get 1.00 Off at Target!
So instead of giving a gift in some box that anyone could just toss away after the gift is given, maybe– try out a Bento box that just keeps giving! I’m excited enough about these that I’m ready to give ALL my gifts in reusable boxes!
Woohoo I’m back again with the lovely ladies of the Weekly Creative! And, the best part is there are a few more ladies this week! Yay! You can pop back and forth to visit all the hosts– they’d love to “meet you!” and big thanks to Diana & Melanie for getting this gig started.. Yay!
There were so many link ups last week that I’m crushing on! Just a few favorites..
You have to go see the after for this bench. Amazing!
I’m loving these glittery vases
So many awesome projects– I need more time in my life! ha :) Okay so party on peeps! I’m going to get comfortable and start browsing.
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Y’all I am so bad. I begged and begged to join in hosting this linky party and then while I was getting blisters from cutting so many owl feathers last night (Halloween planning at it’s finest) I forgot to write the post.. and then I put it up late. I’m officially grounded from the group on day one.
But anywho– lets redeem myself. The Weekly Creative is a link up that the lovely ladies Diana & Melanie host and they’ve so graciously allowed me to join in hosting it.. Whoop! So since I have no week-before features.. you just get… a big shot of our mugs.
I’m going to plan better guys, I am. haha.. Show me whatcha got!
Now, let me start this with saying I’m pretty sure everyone buys toilet paper. But not all toilet paper is made the same you know.. And, it’s not always used for.. what you think it’s used for. Haha.
Case in point– I decided to use it for some Halloween Decor that’s less spooky as we usually use. Now, my kids aren’t frightened by much- they can watch the haunting and hang with the rest of us and not have a scared thought in their head. ;) Lily tells me all the time– “Mommmm, it’s not real..” when scary things are on tv.. But, that doesn’t always mean their friends exactly love zombies, ghosts and gouls. So I whipped up something that is more silly– than scary. Win win!
These vases I used were from Christmas a few years ago. I lightly sprayed them with silver spray paint for a foggy effect which I think works for the mummies too!
Start by rolling out your toilet paper and cutting it down the middle.
If you had larger vases I wouldn’t suggest cutting it but since the toilet paper is so thick three wraps around the small vase it would have been covered, and that’s just no fun.
Don’t try and be perfect by any means, these mummies are back from the dead remember? Tattered and torn works.
I just put a dab of glue on the beginning and on the end, trust me when I say do not stress about this. The beauty of this project is quick and easy. Let perfection walk right out that door!
I cut some eyes and a silly grin from black construction paper and voila! We’ve got a not-so-spooky-mummy! Since I was putting them in a little collection I went with different faces for each. The mummy with the glasses is my favorite.
I think these will look really cool lit up at night! I’d suggest using battery operated candles just for safety reasons ;) Plus toilet paper like this I’m sure would light up VERY fast if you aren’t careful ha ha! :)
Lets talk shopping while we’re at it, because you can get some deals when you by the Cottonelle Triple Roll at Target this week!
They’re having a promotional offer while supplies last if you use this coupon when you buy a 12 pack or larger of Cottonelle Triple Roll you can get a free box of Kleenex too!
And, at my Target and I’m assuming at yours too.. They had a special price for the rolls 9.99 and you got a free box of wipes. Yes, I’ll take free! I’ve got kids! ha ha. Everyone loves a good deal and I like to share the wealth!
This project makes me laugh, because I’m not sure if it’s really really cool. Or just plain hideous. I texted my friend a photo of it when I was finished and she said “Don’t be mad. Because I thought it was really really ugly at first, but now I think I kind of like it” My thoughts exactly.
Another one said “You aren’t going to blog that are you?”
Well.. That’s basically an invitation..
It’s like.. Mardi-gras. Or.. A Christmas tree with lots of lights. A rainbow that exploded.. or a kaleidoscope. But I was going for stained glass.. Not quite Rachelle.. not….quite.
But then I still smile when I see it. Maybe because it’s hilariously funny-ugly.. I don’t know. I’m going to live with it for a day and we’ll see. But if you ever want your kids to be so super sweet and quiet all day? Buy a 15.00 ( don’t spend that.. use your 50% off coupon on your smart phone.) tub of jewels from Hobby Lobby and a tube of glue.. and let..them..go..wild.
Seriously we’ve glued papers today.. iphone cases.. picture frames. And we’ve barely made a dent in the tub. It’s amazing. Better than paying for a babysitter.
It was really easy, I shmeared some glue on the case in little bits so they could both take turns, and let them go at it.
They’d dip the tweezers in glue and then tap the gem to put it on the case for the small itty bitty ones.
Then once the first “coat” was on, I filled in where I wanted it to go since you have to put the glue on the back of the gems at that point. I was realllllly worried and even googled “How long does tacky glue take to dry” because it’s taking forever.. FOREVER. But google assures me that it will in fact dry hard.
*Insert side eye*
If you say so google.
But if colorful chaos isn’t your thing, this would be really pretty with just diamond looking gems.. or maybe just one color.. Or go all out like me. It’s gotten me this far in life. Ha! But it was pretty fun and was nice for a too-cold-to-do anything afternoon while we watched endless Halloween movies on ABC family.. it’s been a pretty awesome day. Try it!
Let’s NOT acknowledge the fact this is day 15.. and the calender says otherwise. Lets just, not go there.
So I wanted a place in the basement to fold laundry and store crap.. Stuff. You know– like linens and all my freakin’ reusable bags that I have.. MILLIONS of. Wrapping paper, gift items.. Things of that nature.
I had this dresser that we used in the nursery when Chloe was this big–or I should say this small, tear. It was nice for storage and all but we have the built in dresser (That Jared uses for work clothes which is why she used the dresser) and since it’s a playroom now there’s really no need for the dresser, built in or otherwise.
SO, it’s sat in our garage for three years just waiting for me to make it pretty again.. and I figured.. while I’m on my mustard kick… ahem.. why not? So I set up a little paint station down stairs.. although I did forget to cover up the floor, that would be a whoopsie.. and good thing we have to paint the floor anyways. Details people..
But it kind of makes me mad because I can NOT get a good picture of the color, it’s a true mustard.
So beautiful in person and since I used my Home Right Finish Max sprayer the coverage is AMAZING. (By the way, the peeps at Home Right wanted me to let you know that the Finish Max is BACK IN STOCK! Hurry! Run run run! I can’t tell you how much I love this tool. I’ve already used it on SO MANY projects in the month or so that I’ve had it. I LOVE IT.)
I didn’t tape off the drawers, though I could have if I wanted to stop any over-spray but I just don’t have it in me to worry about that. I do think the drawers would look cute painted a nice gray so there’s that pop of neutral when you open them. Maybe someday. :)
We still have so much to do downstairs– next up is the floor, which I’m going to try and tackle tomorrow. The trim on the wall, the ceiling which is going to be the death of me.. ahem. The other walls downstairs need to be attended to and a few more storage issues.. but I mean.. really that’s nothing ;) HA!
So far I like the lamp down here, I’m not loving the black shade but I’m trying to figure out something else that I love. I also might move down my good luck charlie painting since it’s currently in the stairway which I love– colors, kids, it kind of just goes together.. But I’d like to see it more. And, of course the upstairs is always such a mess I try not to go into their rooms ;) Kidding.. maybe.
Hola Friends! I wanted to pop in on this chilly Sunday because I’ve been pinning Halloween things like a maniac and even though I’m trying not to decorate anymore for the Holiday.. I thought maybe some of you might still be putting some fun things out and like the inspiration! Enjoy!
How stinking simple is this? SO STINKING SIMPLE THAT’S HOW MUCH. I don’t have a source since the pin lead to google, but.. if you know who it belongs to.. let a girl know and I’ll credit!
Seriously I love J-A-G’s decorating style. Always simple and I dig the black and white as you know..
Seriously this house makes me swooooon. She’s got some more good Halloween goodies in her post as well!
Love this Halloween House Tour
Simple! My kind of decorating.
A little Outdoor decorating perhaps?
Yes! For those lil’ ones who don’t dig the scary.
Lets have a little impromptu linky party shall we? Have any Halloween Posts you’d like to share? Link up!
Need a super easy project, that you can do while watching a movie on a Friday night perhaps? Yes! Lets.
You’ll need– some terra cotta pots, small succulents from Home Depot, Lowes.. the farmers market if they sell them there! And some pretty colors that make you happy, and a pot of stain.
These were all the colors that I used for my Good Luck Charlie painting and I really love them. They’re.. warm and remind me of gems and they just make me happy. Fall is the season to be happy isn’t it? With some pumpkin spice cookies.. and halloween movies on.. Ohh I love it.
Back to the painting. Get some cheap foam brushes and start painting these suckers. They soak up the paint really fast so while you’re painting one, let one dry.. move on.. I did two coats on each and then a coat of stain that I immediately wiped off. I didn’t want them to have too much color on them, just enough to tone down the brightness and make them a little.. dirty.
I didn’t think you would want pictures of me painting, mostly because… it’s kind of self explanatory and this post is basically just to get you inspired to do a quick project that’s good for your health (Plants are AWESOME to have inside. Is that the same for succulents? I assume so? Is that a dumb question.. Perhaps) I keep them in the living room and it’s nice because they hardly ever need water, so even though they aren’t on plates to catch the water and dirt– I can just take them to the sink every few days… (weeks) and water them by the sink, let it drain and put them back.
That’s what I love about these plants, so little maintenance and so far, I can move them around and they like whatever light I put them in. The aloe plant has actually grown quite a bit and the other one with the flower is about to bloom.. I’m waiting on pins and needles to see what it looks like!
Yeah.. I don’t get out much.
(This goes without saying, my living room is NOT staged. Crap is everywhere.. We built that white table and haven’t talked about it.. The brown one is filling in until the other white one is done and.. our floors are hit. HIT I tell you! But.. It was nice and bright and said “Take my picture..” So I listened.)
:) Happy Friday!
Sticking with the wreath theme…. Enjoy!
Since I got lucky and had some new goodies to try out thanks to Home Seasons I thought I’d put them to good use and actually craft something. *Gasp* I know. My glue gun and I have been separated for far too long.
This particular project is super easy, you just need a wreath form (Mine was a leftover from a 4th of July project I never finished)
Spider webs (Fake ones.. Please..har har har)
White fabric (Unless you have a white wreath)
Plastic spiders..different sizes if you want to be fancy.
I’ll let the pictures speak for themselves.
This is when Jared said I should just stop and make it a mummy with googly eyes. Possibilities people! They’re all around you!
Boom. Mama and her babies. Creepy..Gross. And, as being as terrified as I am of spiders I’m a little surprised I pulled this off and am allowing it to grace our front door.
It helps that some are sparkly.
There you have it. Cute wreath in under 5 minutes. Get your spook on people! It’s time!